My
memory is really good. I remember incidents from throughout my
life. Like kindergarten when I was five. Marlena and Judy next
door. Jimmy Olson, my best friend down on the corner in Seal Beach when I
was eight years old. He had a white rat that would crawl around on his
shoulders inside his T-shirt. He had a reel to reel eight millimeter
movie projector, but we weren’t any good at threading the film so the cartoons
didn’t come out backwards or upside down. My phone number. (It only
had five digits.) Crystal clear. But now, it’s a little harder to
hold on to new stuff. I meet somebody, learn their name, and the next day
it’s gone. I have to hear their name again. Maybe several
times. Or I set a reminder for the next day, but when it goes off the
next day, I can’t remember what it’s for.
I’ve
figured out what the problem is. I’m so good at remembering things, I’ve
filled the memory bank. That’s it, and there is a solution. Pick
out a bunch of stuff from my early childhood to forget. Make that go
away, and it will free up room in the bank for new memories. Then I won’t
lose count at two again when I’m putting three scoops of coffee beans in the
grinder.